Thursday, December 20, 2007

24 Hour Rule, Business Advice and Sexual Fun

Sometimes it takes time. Sometimes you need to build a friendship and connection. With Mr. Porsche...we have done that. I have to tell you, I am starting to feel content with him. Oh its not the same contentment as with Mystery Man and DigEm together. In fact, DigEm has been on my mind so much lately. Mystery Man, I am angry with and that is not going to pass.

But with Mr. Porshe....we are building a wonderful connection on many levels. He was in my area before he is gone for two weeks so we met for breakfast. Yes, many times we flirt and talk sex. Today, the topic was a little more serious. He gave out amazing bonus' to his staff and there are always two who are basically assholes. Not appreciating his outrageously generous bonus at all. He was bummed. I mean a $15,000 bonus. Let's see---how could you not be appreciative?!?

Anyway, we started to discuss his business. I switched into business mode. Talking to him as if I talk to my clients, giving him the advice I give to them. I consult. As a business woman, I am very different than the other side of me a man meets on Ashley Madison. You see the girl a guy meets on Ashley is usually flirty, sweet and out to escape her everyday life. Mr. Porsche was now getting to know the business me. I rarily show that side. A few frogs have seen that side of me--its not flirtatious, its not sexy, its strictly, serious business. you know ROI, maximizing your dollar etc. etc Yes guys, I do have a brain and I am a competitive business woman. A side of me that some men are threatened by.

Breakfast is over. Mr. Porsche looks at me and says...I have to tell you. I am very impressed. About what? I said to him. You! I was surprised. I didn't realize how we had just sat there and had a business meeting. I was so infuriated by his employees that it turned the switch. then he proceeded to tell me that he has a consultant that gave him similiar advice. The consultant charges a lot more than me....lets say 5 times more an hour. So now he was teasing me how he was going to hire me for twice a week. Once a business meeting and once to suck his cock...lol He proceeded to yell at me how little I charge . He's right. My worth by my clients is lessened because my dollar is so damn cheap. A $200 an hour consultant will get a lot more attention than a $50. Truth is, I know that I should be getting more. However, when you are financially in a hole --I can't afford to lose any business so I underestimate myself.

Anyway, the conversation turned to sucking his cock. My foot started to rub his under the table. He was in a rush...had three meetings to make so we ran out of there. Drive me to my car, I said (mind you that my car was actually closer than his)...I jumped in his car...go across the street in that parking lot! I can't, I'm late. Oh yes you can....I ordered...Go Go Hurry Hurry. He drove across the street to the somewhat emptier lot.

I bend over and start sucking his face.....Tell me about your vacation! He is reluctant since he has to go but I begin to open his pants. Really, I have to go (oh the urgency in his voice was definitely lessening).....as he is talking....I am wrapping my lips around his cock. He is losing his trend of thought as I can see him getting harder and harder....his phone is ringing..."answer that and my price goes up three times the amount". He starts laughing...ignoring the phone. His cock is getting harder and harder.....but then we were interrupted by a car pulling in next to us. We kissed some more and poor thing, I had to leave him with a hard on. We kissed and hugged..I will miss you. And I said that from the heart. I will miss him. He is my friend. He is my lover. It's nice. I like our balance.

20 minutes later my phone rings...thank you he says. For what, the blow job? He starts laughing....Yes, that and the excellent advice you gave me. I've really been thinking about what you said. I really like that we are friends too. And the advice that really stuck in his head is something that I use for my frogs...I've mentioned it a million times. How ironic..

The 24 hour rule... whether it be a frog or a business decision. Sometimes emotion takes over. So when you get that rage or extreme emotion in any direction (super happy or super angry)...do not react for 24 hours. Level your emotion, think about your strategy and then plan your move. Usually, that is the right move to make---when you have thought it out a little bit and weighed all the factors.

So...let me ask you...where can you get excellent business advice, excellent sex advice AND hear a little about my sexual rendezvous'...only on Cheri's Secret Lovers Lane of course. And you thought I was just all about sucking and fucking!!! lol

Have a great day!! Finish your shopping!!! AND...do at least one thing for someone less fortunate than you. Buy a toy, give to charity...whatever it is...you will feel sooooo good doing it. Remember, its the feeling that you get from giving not how the receiver responds. SO give just a little....

xoxo

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