Part 2- Sexual Marathon

Showered and feeling totally balanced, I wasn't even sure I wanted to go out with this guy. I liked him. In fact, he wrote all these things about a woman that he was looking for and there was a lot that I fit but some I didn't. He loved big cities, wanted to hike Mt. Washington, would take the stairs instead of an escalator and a few more things...but for the most part, we were a match. I wrote back to him...a list of where we were matches but then I wrote, I don't do mountains and if I am in my heels--I will be taking that escalator.

He wrote me back that my email had wit, charm and intelligence....he had to write me. He also intrigued me because while he was not a white collar worker (he is an electrician) I was very turned on by how smart he was. this guy was so well read, he knew trivial about so many things, he challenged my mind and I loved it.

So we met and well he was very cute. We talked and talked about so many things. We spoke about the future and well we did realize that we were not a perfect match even though there was an attraction there. He is insistent that he is going to sell his house and car and in three years move from the suburbs into the city. No question about it, its been his desire for years since he raised his kids and they all agreed...city was for all three of them (he has raised his kids alone for 14 years....I find that so amazing that a man could raise his children so young like that). This was a definite road block and one that I was not going to pretend didn't matter. I was staying in the suburbs. So we agreed that while we felt an attraction, we felt a connection, we enjoyed each others company....starting something that we knew couldn't have a happy ending was not a smart thing.

We continued talking and laughing and I had a new babysitter so I asked him to come over to watch a movie since I really had to get back but I was enjoying him. We came back to my house, the babysitter left, we turned on the movie channel and well...I think we saw 4 minutes of it and we were sucking face on the couch. It started to progress from a slow passionate kiss to a little more wild and well it was not easy trying to fool around on the couch. I hesitated but he convinced me my bed was a better option (take note--men coming to watch movies in this house never end up watching movies...lol)

We went upstairs and i had no intention of having sex but one thing led to another and we were hot and heavy and I was dripping and he was turned on and well.....bottom line....we fucked. And bottom line--it felt amazing because this guy had a super hard cock and he could keep it going. It was a combination of super hot, lustful where he was slapping my ass and biting my neck as he thrusted as hard and deep as he could go into me and then he would slow down...and it became lovemaking where he would stare into my eyes and we would just gently kiss as he would play with my hair and pull it gently back to see my face. Telling me that I was gorgeous and how sexy I was. slowly pumping me, slowly kissing me and we just stared into each others eyes and smiled. And then we would return to hot lustful, deep penetration...this went on for hours!!

We would take a little break and then return again to fucking and the next thing I knew it was 5AM and we both fell asleep in each others arms. He's into cuddling and spooning which was nice. We talked about books and life and exciting things. He really was turning me on with his mind. We had also agreed that we would keep it really light...friends with fringe benefits since a serious relationship was not smart. And so I couldn't kick him out because he was exhausted(although I wanted to, two of my kids were sleeping downstairs) but we decided he would leave by 7 before the kids woke up. My little one had different thoughts though. She decided to get up at 6AM and I didn't hear her so she ended up coming up into the room and jumped on us. This was so not cool to me and I mentally was not ready for this but he was so cool about it. He just started to tickle her and play with her and she got her toys and it was too comfortable. I told him to go back to sleep and I was going to make breakfast with my kids.

And so I wanted to let him sleep and not let her hit him over the head again with the tambourine and I made eggs and pancakes and frenchtoast to keep my kids occupied. I called my neighbor how I was bugging and she was laughing. My help finally came and I went back upstairs where he slept in my bed like a baby. I crawled back into bed and tried to close my eyes because I slept one hour and I wrapped me arms around him. which obviously made him stir and well he proceeded to turn around and go for Round who knows what. we once again banged for over an hour.

We came down and had breakfast together. This was so strange for me and then we spent the rest of the day lying around and playing on the computer. He showed me some great lecture sites where I watched some amazing speakers with deep philosophies on so many different topics, we talked about books and he ran to his car and got me his latest book. Three Cups of Tea..did you read it? Great book, I am actually reading it now. We even went to our Match accounts and I looked at the girls who contacted him. Holy crap, I was amazed. They were really aggressive and really pretty. I looked at him and said....so why me? He smiled, kissed me and said I had a sparkle in my eye and wit and spunk to match. these other girls were a lot more aggressive than I have been and I was shocked how much he was being pursued. As we sat there, he got 5 more girls who wrote him. I admit he's smart and he's hot. Not an easy combination to find on match.

And then after lying around and almost falling asleep again...we were going upstairs before he was going to leave. He was about to kiss me and the phone rang...and he answered it. I could here it was a girl from match! Well that was over the top. I realized that we were friends with fringe benefits, that we were not exclusive but to pick up a phone call when we probably were just about to fuck...uhm...not in my house. He went outside and took the call in my backyard. I locked up the house, jumped in my car and left him a note on his windshield...Tackiest thing any man has ever done, even the guy who took his cock out at the bar...you beat him with this. Great meeting you, have a great day!

He called and apologized like crazy. It was nuts. I truly didn't know how to process it. I mean we are not exclusive, we are not even going to be more than fuck buddies but that was disrespectful. He begged me to come back, I lied and said I was running an errand and would be back in 5. I went back and we talked. He said he shouldn't have picked up the phone, he didn't realize who it was and he realized what an ass he was. I smiled and he has such a boyish charm I let it go. We had a nice night and morning and I enjoyed him intellectually...it was fine. Whatever...he ran to his car and got me the book so I could read it. I smiled and said thank you and he started to kiss me and I pushed him away. "I hope that phone call was worth the sex you gave up".... and I sent him on his way. Call me he said. And I leaned over the roof of my car and said....No baby, you call me. and i went into the house.

He called me from his car. You are an amazing person...thank you for a really phenomenal day. We will be friends. That's it and if I didn't find him to be so mentally stimulating, I would have kicked his ass out. Lifes too short...can't sweat the little things.