"Ok you are beautiful and look like an angel and I live too far away.Big time bummer.What ever lucky get gets to be with you he better be good to you or you just let me know. Your not that far away. I will hunt him down like a wild dog."
Awww, this guy made my day. And honestly, it was a truly rough day. It started out great. Mr. P was helping me find my kid a car. He hooked me up with this guy and we went test driving them, It was so much fun and we began to get closer (which is key right now). And then as we were driving home...the call comes in.
The ex has many tickets (as you know) and two weeks ago a notice came in that his license was suspended. I told him to take care of it. I don't have the money. Well, you have to go down there and work something out. As usual...he ignore it.
So he got caught in an inspection check and he got pulled over because he wasn't wearing his seatbelt. And of course, they were now carting him away. Oh, I made some calls and it all came down to one thing....there was nothing my friends could do. He was in going to jail. So I drove there because the car is in my name still. My kid got to see his father paraded in in handcuffs. And I was just disgusted "Very attractive look" I said sarcastically. The police all smurked. After they took him away, the cops spoke with me and were helping me. He would have been released except two tickets were out of our local area soooo he has to spend the night in jail and appear tomorrow.
Now most ex wives would let their ex's rot. Honestly, I am sick over this. Not because of love but because it is so pathetic and sad. He is a child and irresponsible. He cannot take care of his family, he cannot take care of himself. To top it off, he could lose his job since he cannot show up tomorrow since he is in jail. So now the big dilemna. What do I do? If I don't help him clear this up then he won't keep his license and he will lose his job and the health insurance for the kids. However, I am so tired of this crap.
So how did I spend my Saturday night? I was in the police station. Since the car is in my name I had to produce the title, insurance, registration to get it released. And I will have to pay for the car having been towed. So I am feeling bad and scared for him that he is in jail all night (although I made a few calls to friends who called a friend who is going to make sure he can call his work and has a private cell for the night). But reality sunk in, I am going to be stuck with this man for life. A constant thorn in my side. And tonight is just a small reminder of why I divorced the man. However, even out of my life, he is still pulling me down.
Life is tough right now....work is slow and the pressure is on. tonight I was suppose to work on some projects and my head isn't into it. this guy is going to keep pulling me deeper and deeper into debt....the Cheri Fucking fund is almost depleted and it will kill me to spend it on his tickets, lawyer and other shit. How did I marry this man?
Well I still owe you the Mr P story and I also owe you my dessert with Mr. Rockstar last night. Sugar Daddy cancelled on me but honestly, he is less and less appealing each day. Sweet dreams....I need to get some sleep. Tomorrow is going to be a grueling day.
6 comments:
You said it -- "He is a child and irresponsible." And as long as you play mother he will continue to use you. You can justify your actions saying that he had to get to work, etc. but all the time he sat in the nice jail cell YOU arranged he knew YOU were working away on his behalf while he just sat and enjoyed himself thinking about having screwed you again.
Rosie summed it up, but it is so easy for us on the outside to comment and tell you to cut off all links with this man because he will forever pull you down and waste your time (how long did you spend on the phone, at the police station and picking up the car for this man?). He knows you will always get him out of trouble, and I guess it is up to you to decide when enough's enough! I wish you all the best in deciding how to handle all this x
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Hey Cheri,
You did a darn sight more than I would have if I was in that situation let me assure you!
Although I say (or type!) that but you should read my post entitled "The Inner Stupidity of Me" - I let men treat me like shit too..
Hope it all works out in the end for you baby..
XOXO as always,
Wifey
Cheri,
He won't rot in jail. He will see the judge in the morning, and, at that time, he can make arrangements to pay the court for the tickets. Provided he has a clean record, just about any arrangement will work, BUT, if he misses a payment, all deals are off!
Generally, at least 10% of what he owes will have to be paid to be released, the balance in no more than 6 months.
Talk to prosicuting attorney before he sees the judge, and ask what can be done (plea bargin).
Hope it all works out for you.
Ex-Bailbondsman
Russ9us
Co-dependent, co-dependent, co-dependent is all I can say.
It has to stop soon.
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