Yes, I am back on the married but looking dating sites. It pulls you in. It gives you a little glimmer in your heart. Nothing is like flirting and having fun. First you start looking, then you meet someone, start flirting and POOF....your back in the game!
I met a bunch of interesting characters (and a few potentials). But here are two unique approaches, one I recommend, one I don't!
I'm a hot looking, single man who just wants to find a woman who I care about. Yes, he goes on to list all the things that he is tired of and wants to share (bringing out the motherly side of a woman...awww, I want to make this hottie feel better. Pretty good, a woman's guard goes down. She now has a mission, not realizing he's pulling her in). Then he proceeds to say how we all aren't perfect, we try our best to keep in shape but its okay if we aren't barbie dolls--its the inner person that counts (wow, he is really gooood. Every woman over 30 knows her imperfection. Now he's got ya)...
He has 23 woman who have listed him on their favorites list (come on, how lonely is he!?!). I had to test the waters. Told him he was a hottie but I was married so I didn't fit his description. Aah, the player answered. That it's okay if I am married....we all need to burn those calories, why not do it together. Saying how its no fun doing it alone....he can't be celibate forever. LOL!! Can you say An Excellent, Smooth Talking PLAYA!!!! LOL I read the note and will give him a day or two to chill before I answer. Of course I teased him in my last note......damn, a shark....you could eat a sweet little guppy like me for a snack (hehehehe.....have you ever thought of me as a guppy?!). His response..... he would make me a meal...okay, I am enjoying out flirtations...
And then, a supposed doctor in another state. He was good looking, I added him to favorites. His first email, I should live adventurous...he had a convention in Puerto Rico in November--I should join him. He would pay for my flight and accomodations. Oh, okay. First, you've never seen me or talked to me but you want to take me away? Are there woman that stupid out there? Sure, I don't know you, never spoke with you....let's have coffee in Puerto Rico. I was blown away from this man. He's either a desperate, naive man or a serial killer. I do not recommend this approach...LOL
Mr. Porsche has been sick...poor baby. Mr. Howard Stern Single Guy wrote to me. I was kind of hoping that he would forget about me. He didn't, wants to see me again.
So I am back online....loving the mental masturbation and stimulation! A few more men I did find but no one that WOWed me. I miss MM. But truth is, the anger is starting to come and that's good. The anger will begin to heal my heart. The walls are going up....the depression will leave with the tears. I sulked enough, I need to accept and move on. I have been avoiding the reality..I don't have time for a MM meltdown right now.
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