Men and Women have to be from different planets

There is no doubt in my mind that men and women's minds are wired differently. I think most women think a lot before they say something. Men do not. Women may overthink things at times and men do not think enough.

Mr. P- called late last night. He was sincere and basically said he doesn't understand why I am in such a huff. He did apologize for what he said about the luxury and he basically reiterated everything I said about my life not being luxury. what he meant more was that my schedule is more flexible. Okay, that I will agree with. I do have flexibility...I can work at 2AM or 2PM with what I do and it doesn't matter...the work gets done. And then we discussed started to discuss the chore and the whore. First, he said you are definitely not a chore or a whore. I want to be with you and as far as the whore....well, a whore I wouldn't have to take an attitude from.....hahahahaha Let's talk tomorrow and please do not be upset. I was still upset and pissed.

In the midst of my bad mood, hell breaks loose in my home. The hubby pulling another ridiculous stunt. In a rage, I begin to pack some stuff but realize I have no where to go. And then I went to the bed and I said You get out of this bedroom. His response, I am staying in this room as long as we are not divorced. In a huff, grabbing my pillow and blankets I screamed....with that attitude and me having to sleep on the couch...expect the divorce proceedings to begin!!! And so I had a sleepless night on the couch. At 6AM, I began calling friends...what are you doing? I'm on the couch. My girlfriend laughed. When she wanted a divorce, she was on the couch and that was a motivator to push the damn thing through faster. Yes, she knows how the couch could make a divorce decision quicken.

Morning came and I started with Security Man. What was up with you last night? Were you serious? He responded immediately. "I was". Okay, what did you mean. Call me. Reality is, his house was in an uproar last night. cops, child protection..his wife is a drunk and she was hitting him. Last thing he needs is an entanglement. I told him...right now, I am your friend. No sex...someone that you just need to talk to. We sat on the phone for another 2 hours. He has to go to a lawyer. He is going to lose his kids if she is still around. I offered to be there for him...call me and we can meet at the supermarket if its out of control. He needs a friend and I want to be there for him. I am glad he made an appointment for the lawyer today. He called to say thank you and we are going to meet for lunch.

As for Mr. P-....I found out later that his call was unprovoked. He actually hadn't received my call yesterday until later on after we had met. He hadn't checked his voicemail he was so busy. Well, we met yesterday. I wasn't making it easy...I made him drive all the way here. We were going to meet in a restaurant but that would have been too restrictive both on talking and if I even wanted to touch him. So I said we would meet in the motel and talk. Of course then my day became packed and it was my fault but I literally had 1 1/2 hours. That was it. So we got to the motel and we talked for about 10 minutes just about the whore and chore and then I said to myself....SELF...you are damn horny. So we can waste the 1 1/2 hours OR we can fuck our brains out and discuss this another day. Reality is...things weren't going to change so....I chose the fuck my brains out. I basically said...lets put this on hold....lets have sex. He looked at me and smiled. I still hate you today...but I am horny. He laughed.

A cliffhanger?! YUP...a new post about today will follow a little later tonight...too many eyes around right now!!