I had been writing back and forth with a gentleman on Ashley Madison but with my crazy work schedule I really didn't give him much attention. When I first saw his picture, I hesitated...he reminded me of Mystery Man. My guard went up....tread lightly here....but truth is, he is my type. So I started to write back and forth with him this weekend and the man is sooooo entertaining, quick witted and fun. Scarily, the same sense of humor as Mystery Man. We are talking exact sense of humor. Except the talk hasn't gotten sexual yet and he is a newbie at this. But the conversation was like a trip to an amusement park in my brain.
And it hit me. That is it...while a physical connections is key...it is a man who can mentally stimulate me with quick witted, educational responses that REALLY turns me on. Now security man has it (explains why now I was attracted to him) and this new fireman has it...but Mystery Man was the King of it. His quick witted responses and back and forth emails made me feel like there was a party going on in my brain!! Amazing how I find that so hot!
Now here is the eerie part. He keeps talking about strange things. When I say strange (don't get nervous)...I mean about Batman and Superman and Scooby Doo!!!!!! Those were the private jokes of MM and I. These little comments have been setting me off balance a little. Obviously the comments were not the same but these aren't your everyday comments....The Brady Bunch? Come on.....he is wired like MM...lol I had this excited feeling that it was MM and that he was playing with me and we would meet and it would be him. That would be funny and I would deserve it (and you know I wouldn't be disappointed, I would be very happy).
Well this guy doesn't have daytime flexibility...actually he can't meet during the day so things will be a little harder and he wants to meet tonight for coffee. I am thinking about it.
As I have said before, I have always done things in doubles. My live in boyfriend before my husband had the same name as my husband. I always joked..I knew the name just got it wrong the first time (and as we know now..the second time as well..lol)
Being alone this weekend was really good for me. got a lot done in the house, discovered that i like the solitude. A few more fixings and I will be okay. Got my list to be able to complete it. I am in a much better state of mind.
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