Poor Baby-I Won't Screw and Run

So the reality is, many men cannot take a woman who has a brain, an opinion and one that has her own wants and needs. It confused me all day, what happened with Mr. Astronaut. It was so bizarre so I sent him a note. have a good weekend. He wrote back thank you U2. Hmm...I had to know, how did we go from boiling over passion to the ice ages in a matter of seconds. I wrote him....so what happened yesterday? And he wrote back...the cuddling was the deal breaker you said. WHAT?!?! He was upset that I liked to be held after a wild sex session. That instead of screwing and jumping up and getting dressed like a whore, I liked to hangout and relax, lie in someones arms and get ready for round 2??? I wrote back "So you are telling me--that if I wanted to lie in your arms after sex, contact is an issue?" He writes back..I told you, I don't do cuddling.

And I wrote back....well baby doll, then I guess I don't do you! I am a sensual person, I love massaging someone after or just lying in their arms. I admit it, I know that MM wasn't a huge fan but he actually got into it after awhile. It was our quiet time, our joke time, our tv time. Sometimes I would massage him or him me...sometimes we would just tell jokes, sometimes watch porn, sometimes I would take my finger and just trace his face...he even fell asleep a few times which was my favorite as I lied in his arms. It actually got longer as time went on.

Mr. Porsche, he hates it BUT knows how important it is to me. So he even announces it....okay, come here...10 minutes of cuddling.

When you are with someone, I would think you would want to please them. Giving 5 minutes of yourself to make someone you care about feel special that is not a deal breaker. So, my conclusion, Mr. Astronaut is not for me at all. Dude, I like that little contact after..before jumping up and throwing on your clothes..amazing how he really couldn't do that or wouldn't even entertain the idea. Well I am standing up for my position her. If you can't let me lie in your arms for 5 minutes after you just explored every inch of my body...after your cock was thrusting inside of me..and we exchanged every body fluid imaginable...then you are not for me.

Final note to him....sorry baby, if contact after sex is an issue for 5 minutes, you aren't for me. If one of my friends doesn't need contact after sex, I will send them your way. And please, if you have a friend who can handle a girl touching him after sex--send him to me...good luck in your journey. How was I soooo wrong about this guy. And proof again, a Starbucks meeting is a very good idea before rushing to a motel room. I am so glad I stuck to my guns on that one....I would have been crushed if I let him force me to go to a motel and he would have shunned me like that after.

Well his loss....I am convinced its these Government dudes who have these issues. Mr. Government also was uncomfortable with contact after sex. BUT he even did it...wow, amazing how the C word scares some men!! These are men who go undercover, who see death, who fight for our countries freedom, even go into enemy territory and the CUDDLE is their torture point. If the enemy only knew this...bizarre...okay, next frog!!