Letting My Walls Down For The Fireman To Cum In!

Last night, Mr. Fireman and I were IMing till 5AM. He's such a really great guy. He's sweet, he's attentive, he wants to know all about me, he shows positive feedback when we talk AND he does these little romantic things (and says the nicest things)..

This is the type of guy you need really watch out for (or at least I do). This is the type of guy I allow to seep into my mind, my heart. TROUBLE but absolutely worth the fall if it does come.

The different types I am attracted to:
A player, you can see him from a mile away. You know what you are up against and you know what he' s after. You have your walls in place, your flirting prepared and you are ready for the challenge. You never fall hard for a player. you expect nothing from him...except hopefully a really great fuck!

A Don Juan...same thing. He's smooth, he's got other women he doesn't tell you about. But you know, this ain't going anywhere big--he may be there one minute and gone the next. Same with a smooth talker.

Now a sweet, shy guy...they always seem so innocent. So you reach out to them and hence, you open yourself up for hurt. This is the guy you start to trust, this is the guy you start to make a connection with.

More than once, I have been crushed by a shy guy who really wasn't shy. Mr. Government is the perfect example. "I am new to this. Want to take it slow. I am looking for a friend too." That's right...I put my guard down and BAM!!! I let him in. So, I guess this is a player pretending to be the shy guy. LOL

I'm not going to write much. But I do want to share part of his email with you. I made a comment that I was tired because I was up till 5AM IMing with some guy....his response was that he was also online with.....:

"A girl who has captured my imagination with her great mind, sense of humor and candor and who has a knack for making me feel really good about myself! And guess what else-she sent me pictures and she is very beautiful...and has a voice that belongs on radio! What a coincidence!"

Damn,,,, can you see the walls starting to fall around me!?!? Well I am not getting myself too excited yet I haven't met him yet. you never know. But we are off to a good start. I almost fell over when he said a voice that belongs on radio...oh listen to my podcast!! (hee.hee).

Finally, as we were talking...I realized that I have come a long way sexually. now follow me on this one. If you were a player before you were married and then you got married. You never experienced the internet dating and all the webcamming etc. So, this is a whole new world for our generation. Even those who played years ago....didn't have the internet. So when you ask someone if they have ever had cybersex, webcammed etc. etc. For the newbies, their answer is no (even though they screwed more than their share years ago). So, I was a little shy telling him that I have had cybersex before and that I have watched someone on a webcam. I felt like a pro...I didn't like the feeling actually. When did I become advanced sexually?? lol

One last thing....a couple of weeks ago, a reader sent me a note to help him with Ashley Madison. That he wasn't that successful and that he wanted some pointers. He was hysterical so I took him under my wing...(how funny, he calls me Obi C-, his mentor)! Well. I told him what he was doing wrong and made some suggestions. He had a great and funny personality already so he just needed a little grooming. Last week, I hadn't heard from him. I was wondering how he was doing. I heard from him today. He met three women last week and screwed each one. Even one that had broken his heart the first time around (don't ask, she didn't know it was him). So, how funny is that?? Now I was just trying to help him find one woman....damn, he's doing better than me. I should take his pointers!! I never screw on the first meeting.....am I the only one?

Have a great week!!! And thanks for all your notes and comments!!!! This should be an interesting week for me!! Either lots of highs or lots of lows.....Wish me luck!!